Nurturing Bonds: The Vital Role of a Support Network for Parents in Establishing Feeding Routines with a New Baby

Mar 20, 2024 | Breastfeeding

Nursing mother with a support network during feeding routines

Welcoming a new baby into the world is an exhilarating yet challenging experience, particularly when it comes to establishing feeding routines. The importance of a robust support network during this time cannot be overstated, as it plays a crucial role in providing emotional, physical, and informational assistance for parents navigating the complexities of feeding their newborn.

Emotional Support for the Rollercoaster of Parenthood

The postpartum period is a rollercoaster of emotions for new parents. Having a support network in place ensures that parents have someone to share their feelings, fears, and triumphs with. This emotional support is invaluable, fostering a sense of connection and understanding during the early days of parenting.

Encouragement for Breastfeeding Success

For parents choosing to breastfeed, having a supportive environment is key to success. Encouragement from partners, family members, and friends can boost confidence, alleviate doubts, and provide motivation to persevere through any initial challenges that may arise in the breastfeeding journey.

Practical Assistance with Household Chores

A new baby brings joy but also an increased demand on a parent’s time and energy. A support network that offers practical assistance with household chores allows parents to focus on establishing feeding routines without the added stress of daily tasks, promoting a smoother transition into parenthood.

Knowledge Sharing and Advice

Experienced family members, friends, and healthcare professionals can share valuable knowledge and advice on feeding techniques, soothing methods, and baby care. This collective wisdom can be a tremendous resource for parents, providing them with a diverse set of strategies to try as they find what works best for their unique baby.

Assistance with Nighttime Feedings to Establish Feeding Routines

Sleep deprivation is a common challenge for new parents, especially during nighttime feedings. A support network that includes willing family members, friends, or a postpartum doula can share the responsibility of nighttime feedings, allowing parents to get the rest they need and enhancing the overall well-being of the entire family.

Encouraging Partner Involvement During Feeding Routines

A strong support network encourages active involvement from partners. Partners who are engaged in the feeding routine, whether through bottle feeding or supporting breastfeeding, not only share the responsibilities but also strengthen their bond with the baby and the new parent.

Connection through Parenting Groups

Joining parenting groups or attending support meetings provides an avenue for connecting with other parents facing similar challenges. These groups offer a sense of community, allowing parents to share experiences, seek advice, and build lasting friendships with those going through the same stage of parenthood.  Lactation Room hosts a weekly virtual and in-person parent support group.  Please email for more information.

Professional Support from Lactation Consultants and Healthcare Providers

In addition to familial and friend support, seeking professional assistance from lactation consultants and healthcare providers is crucial. These experts can provide specialized guidance on breastfeeding, address any concerns, and ensure that the baby’s feeding needs are met while supporting the mother’s well-being.

The establishment of a solid support network is vital for parents navigating the complexities of feeding a new baby. Emotional encouragement, practical assistance, knowledge sharing, and professional support all contribute to a nurturing environment that allows parents to focus on building strong bonds with their newborns. With the right support network in place, parents can confidently navigate the challenges of feeding and enjoy the transformative journey of early parenthood.

Sarah Early - MSN, APRN-FNP-C, IBCLC

Sarah Early, MSN, APRN, FNP-C, IBCLC, is a clinically trained Integrative and Functional Health Family Nurse Practitioner who specializes in women's health and is the owner of Peony Women's Integrative Health and Lactation Room. She graduated with a Master's in Nursing and Family Nurse Practitioner with high distinction and is a member of the Sigma Theta Tau International Honor Society of Nursing. Sarah has been a practicing International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) since 2011 and opened Lactation Room in 2014. Lactation Room specializes in supporting parent/baby dyads who are struggling with infant oral dysfunction, feeding difficulties, and tongue-and-lip ties. They earned the prestigious IBCLE Care Award from the International Board of Lactation Consultant Examiners® (IBLCE®) and International Lactation Consultant Association® (ILCA®) have recognized Lactation Room for excellence in lactation care. She is a member of ILCA, USLCA, MBC, AANP, IATP, and MBC.